7 KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS THAT MAY NEVER LEAD TO MARRIAGE

You know it’s of a truth that not every relationship one goes into would lead to marriage; most relationships would just fizzle out on the surface, why some would last for a while then comes to an end, with some even lasting a pretty long time but still won’t result to marriage. Most times, you might want to get married to your partner, but your partner wouldn’t want to get married to you and that’s another harsh reality. So, how do you know your relationship wouldn’t lead to marriage? What kind of relationships don’t lead to marriage?

1. DESPERATION OR SURVIVAL RELATIONSHIP
This kind of relationship, is type in which one partner is highly desperate for marriage. Such relationship might never lead to marriage because desperation isn’t a good quality. Being desperate would throw you in bad light, show your many flaws and could even make your partner feel edgy about getting married to you. Lot’s of desperate ladies end up not marrying their man.

2. THE SEX ONLY RELATIONSHIP
Lots of relationships out there can be referred to as the ‘s*x only’ kind of relationship. In such a relationship, s*x is the long-term and short-term goal of the relationship. A relationship that’s built solely around s*x might never lead to marriage

3. EXPERIMENTAL RELATIONSHIP
I term relationships that keep going back and forth as experimental relationships. Any relationship without stability might never lead to marriage; if all you and your partner do is breakup today and make-up the next day then it shows a sign of incompatibility or that you haven’t found solutions to your relationship problems. If such a relationship leads to marriage, it wouldn’t fare any better.

4. LIVING TOGETHER WITHOUT FUTURE GOALS
The fact that you are living together with your man is no guarantee that such cohabitation would lead to marriage. If there is no marriage in sight, or talks about it, or at least talks about the future or each other’s long-term goals then you might cohabit for a long time, and it would only end there.

5. VALIDATION RELATIONSHIP
This is the kind of relationship where one of the partners seeks other people’s responses and validation before approving to anything. Such a relationship has the feeling of insecurity around it and might never lead to marriage.

6. RELATIONSHIPS WITHOUT LONG-TERM GOALS
A relationship that’s built for the short-term would probably only last the short-term. In relationships that might lead to marriage, both partners (not one) have each other’s future in mind and care about the long-term future of the relationship. When you and your partner never discuss your long-term goals with each other and think about the relationship’s future then marriage might just be a dream that would never happen.

7. THE PASS TIME RELATIONSHIP
In this kind of relationship, it’s mostly about the s*x, the fun and the pleasure. Couples like this have fun in abundance; but deep down, they both have the feeling that it wouldn’t lead to marriage. Such a relationship lacks the commitment and seriousness to walk down the aisle.

Most of this listed above types of relationship may eventually lead to marriage but will definitely end up as a failed marriage.

WHAT MAKES YOU SNORE

Snoring is a common condition that can affect anyone, although it occurs more frequently in men and people who are overweight.

Snoring has a tendency to worsen with age. Occasional snoring is usually not very serious and is mostly a nuisance for your bed partner.
However, if you are a habitual snorer, you not only disrupt the sleep patterns of those close to you, but you also impair your owns sleep quality.

What makes you Snore?
Snoring occurs when the flow of air through the mouth and nose is physically obstructed. Air flow can be obstructed by a combination of factors, including:

1. Obstructed nasal airways: 
Some people snore only during allergy seasons or when they have a sinus infection. Deformities of the nose such as a deviated septum(a structural change in the wall that separates one nostril from the other) or nasal polyps can also cause obstruction.

2. Poor muscle tone in the throat and tongue: 
Throat and tongue muscles can be too relaxed,which allows them to collapse and fallback into the airway. This can result from deep sleep, alcohol consumption, or use of some sleeping pills.

3. Bulky throat tissue: Being overweight can cause bulky throat tissue. Also, children with large tonsils and adenoids often snore.

4. Long soft palate and/or uvula:
A long soft palate or a long uvula (the dangling tissue at the back of the mouth) can narrow the opening from the nose to the throat.
When these structures vibrate and bump against one another the airway becomes obstructed, causing snoring.

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NIGERIA CUSTOMS SERVICE AUCTION PORTAL AND REQUIREMENTS FOR QUALIFICATION

Are you aware that the official auction got of seized items is on going on the official auction portal of the Nigeria Customs Service? Yes it is and below is the link to the official portal and the requirements to participate.

e-Auction Advert (Terms and Conditions)

Nigeria Customs Service wishes to inform the general public about its readiness to deploy the e-auction platform via https://app.trade.gov.ng/eauction as from 1st July, 2017.
Consequently, all those who want to participate in the e-auction process are advised to note the following terms and conditions:

• Applicant must have a valid TIN issued by the FIRS with an active e-mail account.

• An applicant shall pay a non refundable fee of One Thousand Naira (N1,000.00) as administrative charge.

• An Item is auctioned “as is” as such request for replacement or refund shall not be entertained.

• The successful bidder shall make payment within five (5) working days.

• Failure to pay within five (5) working days the item reverts to the second (2nd) highest bidder.

• The successful bidder has two (2) weeks from the date of payment to remove the item bidded for or forfeit same at the expiration of the two (2) weeks.

• Any auction item not removed from the warehouse within fourteen (14) days from the date of payment shall revert to its pre-bidding status.

• Take note for overtime cargo, that the successful bidder shall in addition pay 25% charges for Shipping line and Terminal operator respectively.

• Bidders shall be allowed to bid for more than 2 items per bidding window.

• For claiming items, the winner shall present;

i. A valid copy of paid assessment and bank receipt (optional in case of e-payment);

ii. E-mailed code to identify owner after payment;

iii. A notarized letter in case owner sends representative. (Where owner is present uploaded photo on registration will do.)

iv. Provide proper identification with the notarized letter such as International passport, Driver’s licence, Voters card or National I.D.

• The dwell time for this Online Auction Sale shall be Twenty-Eight (28) days.

• Third party claims shall not be entertained.

• Officers of the Nigeria Customs Service are excluded from participating in this Auction.

• Owner of seized item is excluded from bidding for same.

• Conditions and terms of this auction are to be carefully considered by an interested person before acceptance.

• Applicant undertakes to abide by the conditions and terms of this auction

OLOWOGBOGBORO - NATHANIEL BASSEY FT WALE ADENUGA

Have you listened to this wonderful praise song from Nathaniel Bassey featuring Wale Adenuga titled Olowogbogboro meaning the Outstretched Hand of God.

It is a must have on your Christian Playlist. Download it from the link below

http://Thosynoendowed.blogspot.com/olowogbogboro/nathaniel bassey

10 BAD HABITS THAT DAMAGES THE BRAIN

1.No breakfast
This meal is really important the most important in the whole day, but when avoided all the time the blood sugar levels get spiked and low and irregular. After a night of sleep and no eating, you need food. Otherwise the brain gets no nutrients and is easily damaged

2. Lack of good thoughts and stimulations
To think also engages the brain in healthy work. It opens up new pathways and activates every segment of the brain. You have to work the brain all the time, otherwise it shrinks up or gets damaged due to inactivity. Why not working on the skills you might be great at? Learn, talk, think!

3. Rarely talking
Talking makes the brain work and activates it. Engage in intellectual talks as much as you can and boost the health of the brain.

4. Working when ill
We all are in a rush, speeding, having too much things to do. We all work when we are sick, one thing or another. But, this means the body is begging for rest! Give the body some rest!

5. Polluted air
You can’t wear a mask all the time of course, and there is not much you can do with this. The brain needs a lot of oxygen and this polluted air deprives us of it.

6. Covered head during sleep
It sounds weird but we need as much oxygen as we can get during the night, this limits you to breathe in the whole oxygen. Also, you get more carbon dioxide this way!

7. Smoking
The worst of all habits here. It has many side effects but for the brain, it causes shrinkage and dementia related issues like Alzheimer’s.

8. Overeating
This makes you gain weight, be obese, damages the stems in the brain and reduces the mental focus.

9. Too much Sugar
Sadly, there is sugar in everything we eat or drink. You will benefit a lot if you reduce it. For starters you can absorb more nutrients in the absence of sugar and prevent brain issues.

10. No sleep
No sleeping for long periods of time reduces healthy brain cells. Sleep repairs the whole body from the stress and regenerates every cell.

Credit: Afolabi Adebayo

A TRUE SITUATIONAL ANALYSIS OF LIFE

Kindly read through to the end

After Secondary School..Some of our classmates or childhood playmates have gone out of the country, Others have completed universities and are now Doctors, Engineers, Teachers, Pilots, Lawyers, Administrators, etc.

Some have married, Some have given birth, some still single... ...Some are dead, (Don't forget that too) And others are confined in psychiatric homes. Some are doing their masters programme, PHD, etc.Some haven't even gained admission into the tertiary institution.

Some own companies, Some are now Directors and majority shareholders of huge companies. But how do you feel When you meet your classmate, and it seems like he/she has reached his dreams And you're not yet close to yours?
So many thoughts runs through your mind like life is so unfair to you, right? How about the ones you meet on the street wearing dirty rags and have turned nuisance in the society, what of those mentally or physically challenged, the ones in prison nko? How do you see that?

Nevertheless, You must not regret your life. We all are different And our path and time to greatness differs, Some before you, Some after you, But no matter the level you are presently, Please keep trying to break limitations and move further. Celebrate the success of others, its an application for yours.

Your friend buys a car now, Be happy with him/ her. Remember when you get yours,

T@heirs might not be in vogue no more cos a 2000 model Toyota Camry was once regarded as a new millennium car but now an old model nevertheless so many still wish they own one now. Life is not by competition, If not, We all will be born into one type of family, One religion and same in everything.

Let the passion in you never quench the desire and fire in you Keep it burning cos What you pass through today would be the strength you would need tomorrow. There's no height you cannot attain, Just believe, Define your goals and recognize distractions. Spend time to acquire knowledge, Because the things that
Mainly take people to the top Are the things They devoted time to develop.

Don't be intimidated by your fellow's success, The sky is too wide That the birds can fly Without touching themselves.
Value those little things God bless you with cos there are people who crave for it. Appreciate God, For with God, All things are possible.

Now to those who think they are on top,
Never forget to give a helping hand To those who are down. Life is full of uncertainties; The one you pull up today
May be the one to hold your hand To prevent you from falling down. A piece of advice there.

May our friendship grow From strength to strength, From grass to grace, From zero to hero And from Earth to Heaven.

WISH YOU MORE SUCCESS IN THE JOURNEY OF LIFE*

RANKINGS OF STATES BY FINANCIAL STABILITY

Three days ago, Nigeria's budget-monitoring tech organization, BudgetIT, released a detailed document on the states of Nigeria; their economic situations, debt burdens, budget-funding capabilities, internally generated revenue ratings and financial sustainability.
This move is part of a greater plan to engender transparency in our budgets, as well as demand better accountability from our various state governors across the federation.

The document had some revealing details, some shocking details, as well as some downright damning ones. I guess reality is truly different from state-sponsored propaganda and social media rhetoric.

Ability Of States To Meet Recurrent Expenditure
In this category, the states are ranked by the figures realized after subtracting the total monthly salaries paid by the states from their monthly income. The states in red are states whose monthly incomes are unable to meet up with the monthly wage bill. In other words, states that are unable to pay their salaries without having to borrow. States in green, on the other hand, are states whose monthly incomes are enough to adequately pay salaries and still have some leftovers for other engagements.
This is the table:


From the table above it can be deduced that Lagos, Rivers, Delta, Katsina and Enugu are the top 5 states with the highest leftover cash even after meeting monthly obligations; while Osun, Plateau, Ogun, Nasarawa and Oyo are the bottom 5 states as well as the states with the greatest inability to meet monthly payments without having to borrow.
Perhaps interesting to note, is the fact that Osun state's monthly shortfall is larger than the monthly shortfalls of Ekiti, Bauchi, Abia, Kaduna, Zamfara, Imo and Gombe, combined.

On a region-by-region basis, it can also be deduced that:

1. In the South-South, all other states are green except Bayelsa and Akwa Ibom.

2. In the South-East, Enugu, Ebonyi and Anambra are able to meet recurrent obligations, but Imo and Abia are unable to.

3. In the South-West, Lagos is the only state currently meeting its recurrent obligations while all other sister states, Ekiti, Ondo, Oyo, Ogun and Osun, are unable to.

4. Taraba and Yobe are the only North-Eastern states without monthly shortfalls

5. Niger, Benue and Kogi are the only North-Central states currently without shortfalls.

6. Zamfara and Kaduna are the only North-West states with shortfalls.


Internally Generated Revenue
This was published a few weeks ago, but republished three days ago...